Choose your PATH in LIFE

If attachment helps you move away from other unwanted things, then it is okay. If it gives you a focus, it is fine. But if it causes jealousy, anger, greed and all other negative emotions, then you better work on yourself. Go deep into yourself, meditate and understand it. Any attachment, if it leads you to the higher self, or a higher goal, is okay. But if it pulls you down, you have to come back to wisdom. For every action of ours, we should look within ourselves.
There are some whom justify their actions all the time, and some who find fault with themselves all the time. Both will create a sort of imbalance. Take a middle path, where you can look into your actions and see how you can improve and, at the same time, look forward. Drop the past.
Just like in a car, you have windshield which is big, and rearview mirror which is small. Just imagine if your rearview mirror was big and the windshield, small. That is the situation of your car now. Your rearview mirror occupies more than half the windshield and so you only keep looking back. That is not right. You need to look at the past a little and forward most of the time. If we blame something, it means that we cannot be without it.
Generally, if someone is ver bad, you will just move away from them. But when you hate htem, that there is a deep connection that you are unable to get away from. You want to be with them, which is why you start disliking them.
One who is caught in the whirlpool of the mind only deserves compassion, not anger. Usually, if somebody is negative, or against you, you get angry with them. According to me, you should be compassionate towards them. They don't know what they are doing and it is very evident from their actions. Also, these people feel very happy when something  is going wrong somewhere. They cannot tolerate a good thing happening to anybody anywhere in the world. This indicates a sick mind. So you can only be compassionate towards such people.

--J.D.--

UNLOCK THE POWER WITHIN YOU

“Within you right now is the power to do things you never dreamed possible. This power becomes available to you just as you can change your beliefs."

Sometimes in life as we move along your daily routine, we tend to loose ourselves and forget that we have within us tremendous potential to be or have anything in life. The truth is that you have more natural potential than you can imagine. However, it takes courage and a deep sense of understanding your purpose of life on this planet earth. We need to look within ourselves and find our true meaning for our existence. Whenever we are faced with problems or adversities instead of going online and searching for a solution, if we could just close our eyes, meditate and focus on our breathing, we will find the answer to any problem on earth.
If your goal is to create a wonderful life full of health, happiness and prosperity, you can achieve that as well by unlocking the power within yourself. However, if your goal is to go home and watch T.V. and pay less attention in self development, you can achieve that too. As Richard M. Devos has rightly stated "The only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe that it is possible."
Everything you do or achieve in your life, every thought and feeling has been determined by your self-concept and your belief. If you believe you can do it, then you are correct and if you believe you can't do it, then also you are correct. Napoleon Hill said, "Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve."

--J.D--

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TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

“When you take charge of your life, there is no longer need to ask permission of other people or society at large. When you ask permission, you give someone veto power over your life.”- Abert F. Geoffrey



We need to take charge of our lives. There are times when we are faced with so much problems that we feel helpless and give up. We have to take responsibility first. Only when we take
RESPONSIBILITY for our life, we can have the freedom to whatever we love doing in our lives. There were times where I've just lost my cool and wanted to run away from my problems. However, I later realized that the problems were chasing me wherever I went. So I made a firm decision to face my problems and solve them one by one. Thus, it left me contented and happy and the same time helped me gain confidence in my ability to handle any problems in life.

When we accept complete responsibility for our lives, we take the giant step from childhood to adulthood. Sadly enough, most people don't do this. There are many people I have known who keep whining and complaining about their earlier unhappy experiences and still keep blaming their problems on other people and circumstances. They are still angry about something about the past and cannot let go of it. These kind of people are trapped in the past and they can't get free.

I've learned that we need to believe in ourselves and in our abilities inorder to live a life that we deserve. God has created us and has gifted us with unique talents. Now it is upto us to make use of these unique talents. So have you discovered today what is your talent? What is it that you can do that no one on this planet can do? How does this unique talent differentiate you from others?

Take time out to reflect on these questions. Take a notepad and scribble the first three things that come to your mind once you ask these questions to yourself. Believe me you have the answers locked up within yourself and you don't even realize it.

From this moment forward, see yourself as being self-employed. See yourself as being in complete charge of every part of your life and career. You indeed are very much the creator of your own destiny. Life is truly 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it.

---J.D---

LIFE AS WE KNOW IT

Are you fedup with the daily routine? Are you bored with life and the way things are going on in life? Yes I was at one point in time as I have been there and know exactly how you feel. Sometimes there comes a point in your life where you keep asking yourself this very important question.
"What do I want to do with my life?"
Lets pause for a while and think about that question.

It took me a while to figure out what did I want to do with my life. I had an inflated ego where I had thought I had made the best decisions of my life every minute of the day. But I later realised that I was ignoring the negative habits that were affecting my professional life as well as my personal life. At the end of the day I wasn't getting the well deserved satisfaction and believe me there have been some restless nights I have spent. I hated the sedentary lifestyle and wanted to explore more opportunities for a better life.  Yes Its true, " We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give."

---J.D---